Today, I was reading a blog, Cleared for Takeoff (it isn't letting me link for some reason), that I am a new follower of and she is joining in on a blog hop over at
Raising Madison. I have never read Raising Madison, but I will definitely be adding her to my reader today! The blog hop is to write letters to your former self. I think this is such a fun idea! Who wouldn't want to be able to go back to their younger self and tell them advice or how things worked out after the fact! Here we go:
Dear 6 year old Jennifer,
Don't make fun of the little boy in the After-School Program who can't eat chocolate pudding at snacktime because karma is going to get you next year for it.
Dear 7 year old Jennifer,
I told you not to make fun of that little boy. Do you feel itchy? Have hives everywhere? Swollen feet and hands? Yep, you are now allergic to chocolate. Believe me! The doctors don't take too long to put it together either considering you ate a chocolate donut, chocolate milk at both breakfast and lunch, and a chocolate chip cookie all in one day. The rest of your life people are going to feel so sorry for you at every birthday party and social gathering where chocolate is involved. It isn't so bad though. You really won't miss it at all after a few months!
Dear 9 year old Jennifer,
Pretending you have an imaginary friend in the 4th grade and playing with him at recess is not normal. You should stop doing that right now! I know your best friend Shaniqua has joined in on the game and y'all are now making an Imaginary Friends Club that no one but the other kids at recess who have imaginary friends can join in sounds fun, but really you will look back on this in your adult life with a twing of embarrassment. Plus it isn't an imaginary friend if you are conciously making the decision to pretend it is there because you think it is cool. It is not cool, and you will laugh at yourself when you are grown up.
Dear 11 year old Jennifer,
You are starting middle school today. These next fews years are going to be awful. I just want to warn you. You will get through them fine, but all kids have to pay their middle school dues. A few words of advice. 1. you don't look like a teenager no matter how hard you try, so quit watching Clueless and trying to mimic Alicia Silverstone with her amazing closet. 2. You teacher is not that horrible. You won't even remember her name when you grow up. Just do like she says...write everything in cursive NOT print because you think it looks prettier, look intently at the flag when you say the pledge or you will feel her wrath, and listen to her play What a Wonderful World for the millionth time without complaint. Also, she is going to find out about your parent impending divorce and start to treat you differently than the other kids, which will be very embarrassing, so just mind her from day one. 3. You are also going to read the first book of the amazing Harry Potter series this year and you will be hooked for life. You are in for a treat because in a few years they are going to make a movie!!! However, you should take better care of those books because when you are 22 and getting married and trying to save money to live life on your own, you won't really want to replace them.
Dear 12 year old Jennifer,
Your parents are going to get divorced this year. You are going to move out of your house that you have always lived in. It may feel a little devestating at the time, but really you will get through it okay. You and your mom are going to grow closer than you ever have been through this. Remember that she is the person that loves you more than anything and works really hard so that you can still live the life you had when your dad lived with you. Take is easy on her too because this is a hard time for her too.
Dear 14 year old Jennifer,
You are in high school girlfriend! You are super boy crazy, but believe it or not you are going to meet your future husband in these high school hallways! It doesn't take you long either! You will meet him in October of Freshman year, and as soon as you meet you will be inseparable. He takes you out to your first ever date to the Homecoming Dance and you will realize later how huge this is considering the boy doesn't dance! You think you just want to date him at first because he is a junior and can take you to the prom, but believe me that after about a month you won't care about going to prom anymore because you will be head over heels in love! Your mom says she won't let you ride in his car until you are 15, but she caves. She meets him and trusts him, so don't give her too hard of a time on that one. People are going to say that y'all won't last too! Don't listen to them! Y'all are an exception, not the rule!
Dear 17 year old Jennifer,
That girl you think has been your best friend since middle school...she is two-faced and you shouldn't waste too many tears on her. She is going to be really mean to you behind your back. She is going to spread vicious rumors. She is going to quit calling you and spending the night. You just need to focus on you this year. Forget her! She is just jealous of you. Believe me! It hurts, but she gets hers next year when she goes to college. She gains a bunch of weight and her boyfriend breaks up with her...over the phone! You become super best friends with Ashton this summer, and she won't matter much to you anymore in a few years. This experience is hard, but it teaches you a lot of good life lessons. Head up, you can face this!
Dear 18 year old Jennifer,
Don't go away for college! It isn't worth going up there because you are going to move home by the end of the semester. You are also going to rack up a lot of milage and spend all your money on gas going home every single weekend and sometimes during the week just to see Thomas. I know you are craving independence, but your mom is really cool when you move home and realizes that you are an adult. One good thing does come out of it though...Thomas becomes really romantic! Distance really does make the heart grow fonder! You are going to get roses every single weekend whether you go there or he comes to see you. He is going to surprise you and cook you lunch when you come into town...complete with a rose on your chair and a dozen in your arms. That is going to become one of your favorite memories. All the girls in your dorm think he is just the sweetest! On another note, that girl that is your roommate isn't what you think. She is weird and horrible to live with. She will bring guys home that are not her boyfriend and asks you if she can borrow your undergarments. You end up having to buy a lock for your closet so she doesn't "borrow" things. Request a roommate transfer from the beginning!
That's all I have! If you would like to join along, head over to Raising Madison to link to your letters!